Recently, I came across a debate on a
forum that I occasionally peruse whereon one side, some posters
believe that it is more Alpha to pay for the company of a woman, while
on the other side, some believe that it is more Alpha to go to PUA
(pick up artist) bootcamps and utilize their tactics. Given my
knowledge of what an Alpha Male is and my beliefs, it is never Alpha
to have to pay in order to sleep with a woman. That is not to say
that an Alpha does not ever pay, and that is not to say that we do
not all pay in some way, whether it be time, money, or some other
resource, but an Alpha should be able to score without paying a woman
of the night.
On the other hand, most people that
attend PUA classes do not reach the high levels of success that they
dream of, and many end up right in the same position that they
started from. Of course, some of this has to do with not putting in
the right amount of work to improve their game, but some of it is due
to the fact that the same tactics will not work for everyone, and
also that no matter how good one's game is, there are limitations
because there are some women that just won't bite for some men no
matter what one does (that was a metaphor by the way). However, for
the handful of people that do develop their game and find success
using PUA methods, I suppose that this would be the better option.
From my perspective, if one finds it hopeless for them to get laid, it is probably better to just pay for it than to waste money on PUA lessons that are not guaranteed to get them anywhere. It is a greater evil to finance another man's lifestyle that will shit on them when one could pay the same money or less to get a sure shot of having it with a woman (that if paid enough might literally shit on them, if that turns them on).
Personally, I do not claim to be Alpha,
but I would not want to pay for a woman (other than paying for a date
or something along those lines). I do like to win, but there is just
something off-putting about going the P4P (pay for play) route, so I
do not indulge myself in it. I would not want to attend a PUA camp
either though, especially if I had to come out of pocket for it,
since I find it even worse to put another man on a pedestal and
finance his lifestyle when mine is lacking, which is what I often see
in the online PUA community (pretty “Beta” behavior, for lack of
a better term). For this reason, paying women for sex wins this
battle, although it cannot be classified as “winning.”
Life is too short. Just do which ever one make you more happy. Believe that you are special no matter what cause that's half the battle. Time and money is the same damn thing. You and only YOU decide which one is most important to you. Don't let anyone steal your happiness from you.
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